Tuesday, July 20, 2010

why should we bother?

every time when a problem or question arises
we tend to cease at the problem
looking for answer & reluctant to move on

sometimes we work so hard to find the solution

but end up getting nothing

i always wonder
why GOD creates so many difficulties for us

is He trying to challenge us?

or simply want us to stay strong
every time we encounter hardship in life?

perhaps
He just wants us to know that
there is no perfect person in this world

& we can't solve every problems
He wants us to let go something
in order to move on


there are too many questions in life

questions that beyond us

questions that will never have an answer

so why are we so stubborn?

why are we suffering ourselves?
just let go &
carry on




















走吧!何必烦恼那么多?

Monday, July 19, 2010

The Body Language of Liars

Liar Move #1

Liar Move: He wraps his ankle around the leg of a chair.

Busted: "Pulling off a lie is stressful, so when a guy is masking the truth, his body will tense up," says body-language expert Janine Driver. "As a result, he'll take a more rigid stance. This is also a subconscious sign of restraint. It's like he's physically fighting to hold back from telling the whole story."





Liar Move #2

Liar Move: He suddenly puts his hands in his pockets.

Busted: "Showing his palms indicates comfort and openness, so when he's lying, he'll instinctively feel the need to conceal them," says Patti Wood, author of Success Signals: A Guide to Reading Body Language. "He may also hide his hands behind his back or occupy them by fidgeting with an object, like his cell phone."






Liar Move #3

Liar Move: He shrugs one or both shoulders.

Busted: "Watch out if he does this while saying a definitive statement, like 'I didn't sleep with her,'" says Driver. "The shrug is his way of canceling out the untruth, much like crossing his fingers behind his back, except he's unaware of the motion. It's also his subconscious way of not committing to the lie and avoiding guilt."





Liar Move #4

Liar Move: He uses his index finger to rub just underneath his nose.

Busted: "This sign is usually exhibited by men who don't typically lie, so they feel remorse," says Wood. "Immediately after he speaks, he'll touch his face in a way that slightly hides his mouth. It's as though he can't believe what just came out of there."


A must read for girls!!

Seven Surprising Signs He'll Never Marry You

The tricky thing about womanizers is that they usually have their game down pat, which means it's easy to get sucked in. Here are some of the subtle clues a guy has a case of commitment phobia. If he exhibits three or more of these, watch out.


1. All of His Exes Are "Crazy"
Be wary of a man who refers to his former girlfriends as crazy, psycho, or clingy — because what's the common denominator here? Him. The dude's either looney-bin glue, or he never really wanted the relationship to work in the first place.

2. He Plans Ultra-Romantic Dates
A cozy candlelit dinner is nice and all, but if he only takes you to secluded places, it could be a tip-off that he doesn't want other women to spot him on a date. Next time he asks you out, suggest hitting up a busy restaurant or popular bar and see how he reacts.

3. He's Hot and Cold on the Phone
He'll text you 10 times in a night, then go MIA for days. He'll chat on the phone for an hour, then ignore your messages for the rest of the week. Wondering what the heck is going on? We're going to be brutally honest: He's mostly likely busy dating other women.

4. He Guilt-Trips You
It's normal for a guy to be jonesing to sleep with you from day one. But this behavior is a red flag if he a) lays the pressure on thick, or b) tries to make you feel bad if you choose not to get physical — like by giving you a sob story about how worked up he is without the release of sex.

5. Stuff Is Missing from His Facebook Profile
Has he untagged any photos of you and him? Does he post updates often, yet never mention hanging out with you? Is his relationship status hidden? We smell a rat. A guy who's leery of commitment will make sure there are no traces of you on his page.

6. His Buddies Act Distant
Even though a player's bros may be friendly enough, they probably won't ask you many personal questions about your job, interests, etc. The ugly truth: They don't want to invest time and energy getting to know you because they figure you're not going to be around very long.

7. He Says You're Soul Mates
Okay, we adore the idea of love at first sight — but too much too soon could also indicate sketchy intentions. If a dude comes on super strong right off the bat (we're talking the first couple of weeks), telling you things like that he's starting to fall in love with you, just make sure you play it safe and trust your gut. Those powerful words might be rolling off his tongue so smoothly because he's spoken them so many times before.


p/s: i got this from the msn homepage, hope it is useful to u girls=)

Thursday, July 15, 2010

i want everything back to normal!

health is getting worst day by day
pimples & blackheads are as if the fast-growing mushrooms
keep popping out on my face
they are so annoying!!

insomnia creeps in my life as well
even though i lay on my bed early
but it is hard for me to fell asleep
i can only sleep at 2++am everyday!
what the hell is happening to me??
may be i use to stay up late for revision recently
tat's why my body will react like this...

OH~ i miss my healthy & pretty face so much

i NEED facial so BADLY!!
i NEED body massage so BADLY!!

how much i wish i can finish up A Level as soon as possible
it has turned me into a CORPSE T.T
still, i will work hard for it....

GOD bless me, please~

nice, aren't they?










Saturday, July 10, 2010

l love the way they dress










Thursday, July 8, 2010

Every time you are going fast like the wind
you find that nothing in this world is beautiful
life, is meaningless

but please,
slow down

peer at your surroundings
look at every single thing carefully

you'll see sky
you'll see clouds
you'll see rainbow( sometimes there'll be 2 layers)
you'll see flowers
you'll see trees

and

you'll see people smiling =)

life is going fast
but we must learn to slow down our steps sometimes
you don't wanna miss anything in your precious life, aren't you?

LIFE
is indeed beautiful


Tuesday, July 6, 2010

All Things Are Not What They Seem

2 men were walking through the woods when they came across a big deep hole.

" Wow... that looks deep," says one. "Let's toss a few pebbles in and see how deep it is."

They threw in a few pebbles and waited, but there was no sound.

"Gee--- that is really deep hole. Let's throw one of these big rocks in. that Should make a noise."

They picked up 2 football-sized rocks and tossed them into the hole and waited, but still they heard nothing.

"There's a railway sleeper over here in the weeds," said one. "If we toss that in, it's definitely going to make some noise." They dragged the heavy sleeper over to the hole and heaved it in, but not a sound came from the hole.

Suddenly, out of the nearby woods, a goat appeared, running like the wind. It rushed toward the 2 men and ran right between them, running as fast as its leg could go. Then it leaped into the air and disappeared into the hole. The 2 men stood there, astonished at what they'd just seen.

Out of the woods came a farmer who said, "Hey! Did you guys see my goat?"

"You bet we did! It was the craziest thing we've ever seen! It came running like the wind out of the woods and jumped into that hole!"

"Nah," says the farmer. "That couldn't have been my goat. My goat was chained to a railway sleeper!"


p/s: found this story interesting & meaningful, juz post it to share with u all....

Saturday, July 3, 2010

do you still remember??





it had been 2 years...
how are you all??